Here a few ideas on how to make your role as a wife a lot more fun and rewarding. I realize nobody is ever perfect and who would want to be, but we can always strive to be better. Life is a continuous journey of discover and learning. I have been married happily for 12 years and I feel like my husband and I have a great relationship and I see so many of my friends unhappy with theirs so I came up with this entertaining list of some do and don’ts I have witnessed or experienced. 1. Make your husband feel like the most important person in the world to you because he should be.
2. Take care of yourself. It is so important to feel good about yourself and your husband will notice when you do. He will know that you took the extra time to look good for yourself and him. Then he will be happy with his hot wife and want to show you off.
3. Make sure he goes out with guys. Every guy needs his free time and friendships are so important. And sometimes you just need him out of your hair.
4. Make sure you go out with the girls. You need to get away sometimes and just be you and let loose. We all have different roles to fill, wife, mother, and friend. Each one is a different part of which we are as a whole and needs attention.
5. Be a gracious hostess. When his friends come over to visit serve them beverages and food and then when your friends come over he will probably do the same for you. It allows him to be king of the castle in front of his friends and feeds one his basic needs. I have been told that the three most important things to most men are sex, food and sleep. In that order.
6. Never use sex as a weapon. Lovemaking is to be mutual enjoyed and never used to win an argument.
7. Never wear sweats around the house or going out or perhaps don’t even own them. They aren’t flattering to anyone that I know of.
8. Support your husband in whatever endeavor is tries. You are his biggest cheerleader and closet confidante. He needs you to be honest and to back him up.
9. Never ask “Does this make me look fat?” If you don’t want to hear the answers then do not ask the question. Anyway he answers that will be wrong so just don’t go there.
10. Take the lead in the bedroom at least 50% of the time. Its fun and he will love it. It is also so rewarding to be driving the sex machine.
11. Trust your husband. All relationships are based on trust and if they aren’t they you will not fill complete. He chooses you and that is why you are his wife. If you weren’t the most important person to him then you wouldn’t be married now.
12. Never argue in front of anyone. Nobody else wants to hear your business and forcing an issue in front of people is just embarrassing for all parties involved. There is a time and a place to discuss things and when you get home and are alone is probably the best.
13. Never go to bed mad. If you go to sleep upset then you will just feel crappy the next day and nothing will be resolved. Try to settle things before sleep and then you can have fabulous make up sex.
14. Do not hold onto mistakes. If you have accepted an apology for something then let it go and move on. Don’t keep bringing up mistakes from the past. It solves nothing and just keeps bring back crappy feelings.
15. Learn a little about whatever your husband is interested in. Then you can have an educated discussion with him. You don’t have to love the same things as he does but learning about it will let him know you take his interest seriously and what he does is important to you. You never know, you might just end up enjoying it too.
16. Have your own interest and hobbies. It is great to share interest but we all need to do things that are just ours. Something that just feels special to us.
